CONDITIONS WE TREAT

ADHD, OCD, and related conditions

ADHD and OCD are very different conditions, but both can take over your days: one through distraction and overwhelm, the other through intrusive thoughts and rituals.

We assess and diagnose ADHD in adults, and our virtual intensive outpatient program offers structured, skills based care for ADHD, OCD, hair pulling, and skin picking.

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CONDITIONS WE TREAT

ADHD, OCD, and related conditions we treat

Adult ADHD

Ongoing trouble with attention, organization, time, and follow through, sometimes with restlessness or impulsivity. It can look inattentive, hyperactive and impulsive, or a combination of both.

ADHD that was missed in childhood

Many adults, especially women, are not diagnosed until later in life, after years of feeling "lazy" or "not living up to potential."

Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)

Unwanted thoughts, images, or urges (obsessions) and the things you do to relieve the distress they cause (compulsions), such as checking, cleaning, counting, or mental reviewing. We treat all forms of OCD, including contamination, checking, harm, symmetry and "just right" OCD, health OCD, and scrupulosity (religious or moral OCD).

Intrusive thoughts

Disturbing thoughts about harm, sex, religion, or relationships that feel completely unlike you. They are a common form of OCD and are not a sign of who you are.

Relationship OCD

Constant doubt and checking about whether you love your partner or whether the relationship is right.

Body focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs)

Repeated pulling, picking, or biting at your hair, skin, or nails that is hard to stop even when you want to, and often happens without noticing.

Trichotillomania (hair pulling)

Recurrent pulling out of hair from the scalp, eyebrows, eyelashes, or elsewhere, with repeated attempts to stop.

Excoriation (skin picking)

Recurrent picking at the skin that causes damage, often in response to stress, boredom, or tension.

Impulse control disorders

Urges that are very hard to resist, such as explosive anger outbursts, that bring brief relief and then regret or harm to relationships.

SIGNS

Signs it may be time for more support

ADHD

  • Missing deadlines despite trying hard

  • Losing track of time, things, and conversations

  • Feeling overwhelmed by everyday tasks

  • Starting many things and finishing few

  • Frustration, shame, or conflict about all of the above

OCD and related conditions

  • Thoughts that get stuck and cause intense anxiety

  • Rituals or checking that take more than an hour a day

  • Seeking reassurance again and again

  • Avoiding situations that trigger the thoughts

  • Pulling, picking, or outbursts you keep trying to stop

What we are

Virtual, across California. Groups and individual sessions by video, from wherever you can close a door.

An office in Fountain Valley. 8780 Warner Ave, Ste 11, for in person EMDR and for anyone who would rather be in the room.

One team, not a referral chain. Your therapist and your psychiatric provider work together on the same plan.

HOW WE TREAT IT

How we treat ADHD, OCD, and related conditions

EXPOSURE AND RESPONSE PREVENTION

ERP is the approach with the strongest research for OCD: gradually facing triggers without doing the compulsion, at a pace you agree to. How the program works

SKILLS FOR ADHD AND BFRBS

CBT based groups on organization, time, and follow through, and ways to notice the triggers behind pulling, picking, or outbursts and build other responses.

MEDICATION, IF IT IS PART OF YOUR CARE

Our medical team can evaluate and prescribe medication, including ADHD medication, in person or by video, alongside therapy. Medication management

QUESTIONS

Common questions

Do you diagnose ADHD?

Yes. We assess and diagnose ADHD in adults, and we also work with people who already have a diagnosis.

Is OCD just being very neat or organized?

No. OCD is driven by distress and doubt, not preference, and it can involve thoughts no one else can see.

Can ERP be done by video?

Yes. Many exposures are practiced where the triggers actually happen, including at home.

Is treatment covered by insurance?

Most major PPO and HMO plans are accepted, including Cigna, Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross Blue Shield, and United. Call 949.706.8610 or send us a message and we will verify your benefits before you commit to anything.

If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline) or call 911. Our program is not an emergency service.

Clinically reviewed by Angelina DeSanto, LCSW, Clinical Director. Last updated October 2026.

Other conditions we treat: Depression and mood disorders · Anxiety and panic · Trauma and PTSD · Personality disorders · Burnout, grief, and life stress · Women's mental health · Men's mental health · Relationships and codependency

WHO YOU WOULD WORK WITH

A small team you will actually get to know

Kin Wellness is run by its clinicians. The people below are the people in your groups, and the full team is on the Team page.

Cofounder and Clinical Director, LCSW #80761, Ph.D Candidate
Paola Mercado Demeza, AMFT, Cofounder and Lead Clinical Therapist of Kin Wellness

Paola Mercado Demeza, AMFT

Cofounder and Lead Clinical Therapist, Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #15190. Supervised by Angelina Desanto, LCSW, Ph.D Candidate
Dr. Joe DeSanto, MD, Medical Director of Kin Wellness
Angelina DeSanto, LCSW, Cofounder and Clinical Director of Kin Wellness

Dr. Joe DeSanto, MD

Angelina DeSanto, LCSW

Medical Director

LET US HELP

Tell us how to reach you

Tell us how to reach you and someone from our team will call you back. The first conversation is short and confidential: what has been going on, what your questions are, whether this is the right level of care for you, and what it would cost with your insurance. There is no obligation to enroll, and if it is a fit you can start right away.

Prefer to call?

949.706.8610

Office hours Monday to Friday, 9 AM to 8 PM Pacific. In person care at 8780 Warner Ave, Ste 11, Fountain Valley CA 92708.