CONDITIONS WE TREAT

Burnout, grief, and life stress

Sometimes nothing is wrong in a diagnostic sense, and still you are running on empty. Burnout, loss, and big life changes can wear down even the most capable people.

Our virtual intensive outpatient program gives adults in California a place to stop, sort through it, and rebuild, without stepping away from the responsibilities that got you here.

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WHAT WE HELP WITH

Burnout, grief, and life stress we help with

Professional burnout

Exhaustion, cynicism or distance from your work, and feeling less effective, after long periods of stress that never let up. The World Health Organization describes burnout as an occupational phenomenon, not a medical condition, and it often overlaps with anxiety and depression.

Caregiver stress

The strain of caring for a child, a partner, or an aging parent while trying to hold everything else together.

Grief and loss

The death of someone close, a pregnancy or infant loss, the end of a marriage, or the loss of a role or a future you expected.

Prolonged grief

Grief that stays intense and disabling long after a loss, with constant longing, difficulty accepting the death, and feeling that part of you died too. It became a formal diagnosis in 2022.

Life transitions

Divorce, a move, a new job or no job, retirement, becoming a parent, or children leaving home.

Adjustment difficulties

Stress, low mood, or anxiety after a change that feels out of proportion or lasts longer than expected.

SIGNS

Signs it may be time for more support

How it can feel

  • Running on empty, even after rest

  • Dreading work or feeling numb about it

  • Waves of grief that make it hard to function

  • Feeling lost after a change you did not choose, or one you did

How it can show up

  • Getting sick more often, headaches, or trouble sleeping

  • Irritability with people you care about

  • Pulling back from friends and things you used to enjoy

  • Relying on habits that numb the stress

What we are

Virtual, across California. Groups and individual sessions by video, from wherever you can close a door.

An office in Fountain Valley. 8780 Warner Ave, Ste 11, for in person EMDR and for anyone who would rather be in the room.

One team, not a referral chain. Your therapist and your psychiatric provider work together on the same plan.

HOW WE TREAT IT

How we help with burnout, grief, and life stress

ROOM TO PROCESS

Processing groups and individual therapy to sort through what happened and what it means for you. How the program works

SKILLS FOR THE LOAD YOU CARRY

Boundaries, stress and nervous system regulation, mindfulness, and ACT skills for living with what you cannot change.

EVENING CARE FOR WORKING ADULTS

The 5 PM to 8 PM Pacific track fits around a full workday, Monday through Friday. Verify your insurance

QUESTIONS

Common questions

Is burnout serious enough for an intensive program?

It can be, especially when it is affecting your health, sleep, relationships, or ability to work. We talk through the right level of care on the first call.

How long does grief last?

There is no set timeline. Grief that stays intense and disabling for a long time, or that keeps you from living your life, is worth getting support for.

Can I keep working?

Most people do. That is what the evening track is for.

Is treatment covered by insurance?

Most major PPO and HMO plans are accepted, including Cigna, Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross Blue Shield, and United. Call 949.706.8610 or send us a message and we will verify your benefits before you commit to anything.

If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline) or call 911. Our program is not an emergency service.

Clinically reviewed by Angelina DeSanto, LCSW, Clinical Director. Last updated October 2026.

Source: World Health Organization, burnout as an occupational phenomenon, ICD-11 (2019).

Other conditions we treat: Depression and mood disorders · Anxiety and panic · Trauma and PTSD · ADHD and OCD · Personality disorders · Women's mental health · Men's mental health · Relationships and codependency

WHO YOU WOULD WORK WITH

A small team you will actually get to know

Kin Wellness is run by its clinicians. The people below are the people in your groups, and the full team is on the Team page.

Cofounder and Clinical Director, LCSW #80761, Ph.D Candidate
Paola Mercado Demeza, AMFT, Cofounder and Lead Clinical Therapist of Kin Wellness

Paola Mercado Demeza, AMFT

Cofounder and Lead Clinical Therapist, Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #15190. Supervised by Angelina Desanto, LCSW, Ph.D Candidate
Dr. Joe DeSanto, MD, Medical Director of Kin Wellness
Angelina DeSanto, LCSW, Cofounder and Clinical Director of Kin Wellness

Dr. Joe DeSanto, MD

Angelina DeSanto, LCSW

Medical Director

LET US HELP

Tell us how to reach you

Tell us how to reach you and someone from our team will call you back. The first conversation is short and confidential: what has been going on, what your questions are, whether this is the right level of care for you, and what it would cost with your insurance. There is no obligation to enroll, and if it is a fit you can start right away.

Prefer to call?

949.706.8610

Office hours Monday to Friday, 9 AM to 8 PM Pacific. In person care at 8780 Warner Ave, Ste 11, Fountain Valley CA 92708.